Lilah, she got the Gay, on..Lilah told her mother and me that she was gay when she was a senior in high school. For a number of reasons, mostly having to do with me not wanting her to get strung up on a fence somewhere, I'd advised caution about broadcasting this news. At least until complete certainty had set in for her. At which point, I promised, I'd fly her and her partner to Canada if she ever wanted to get married. After getting to Santa Cruz she's become involved in campus queer activities. (Queer as in Gay, not (necessarily) queer as in odd.) and generally settled into her happy life.So, she's out now. Grandma got the word today, others are getting it via this post. :-)I seem to be personally responsible for countering Senator Inhofe's efforts for a more wholesome America.